Unruly: Because Your Nervous System Deserves Revenge
This isn’t self-help.
It’s self-hell-yeah—peppered with neuroscience, inappropriate metaphors, and the occasional middle finger to the status quo.
Unruly is a neuroinclusive, radically funny shame detox for anyone who’s ever felt like too much—or not enough—in a world built for beige, obedient humans.
With chapters like “Call Me Clingy Again and I’ll Cry in Your Mouth” and “The Patriarchy’s Favorite Sex Toys: Boredom & Shame,” this book drags purity culture, capitalism, and every lie you’ve been fed about your body, desire, and worth.
This is not a journey to fix yourself. It’s a firestarter for burning the scripts that never fit and reclaiming your loud, messy, brilliant self.
You’re not broken. You’re just tired of auditioning for systems that were never built for your freedom.
"Unruly" is for every neurodivergent, too-loud, too-sensitive, too-sexual, too-much soul who’s sick of shrinking to survive. AASECT Certified Sex Therapist Dr. Misty Gibson blows up the shame scripts you never consented to and hands you the mic. We’re talking sex, softness, masking, meltdown-level burnout, late-stage capitalism, and the hot mess of being human in a world that demands silence. Expect dry, dark humor, science, chaos, permission slips, punchlines, and maybe a few threats to the patriarchy. This is not about becoming your best self. It’s about unearthing the feral truth of who you were before shame tried to domesticate you.
Take up space. Say the thing. Burn it down. Be unruly.
This isn’t self-help.
It’s self-hell-yeah—peppered with neuroscience, inappropriate metaphors, and the occasional middle finger to the status quo.
Unruly is a neuroinclusive, radically funny shame detox for anyone who’s ever felt like too much—or not enough—in a world built for beige, obedient humans.
With chapters like “Call Me Clingy Again and I’ll Cry in Your Mouth” and “The Patriarchy’s Favorite Sex Toys: Boredom & Shame,” this book drags purity culture, capitalism, and every lie you’ve been fed about your body, desire, and worth.
This is not a journey to fix yourself. It’s a firestarter for burning the scripts that never fit and reclaiming your loud, messy, brilliant self.
You’re not broken. You’re just tired of auditioning for systems that were never built for your freedom.
"Unruly" is for every neurodivergent, too-loud, too-sensitive, too-sexual, too-much soul who’s sick of shrinking to survive. AASECT Certified Sex Therapist Dr. Misty Gibson blows up the shame scripts you never consented to and hands you the mic. We’re talking sex, softness, masking, meltdown-level burnout, late-stage capitalism, and the hot mess of being human in a world that demands silence. Expect dry, dark humor, science, chaos, permission slips, punchlines, and maybe a few threats to the patriarchy. This is not about becoming your best self. It’s about unearthing the feral truth of who you were before shame tried to domesticate you.
Take up space. Say the thing. Burn it down. Be unruly.


This isn’t self-help.
It’s self-hell-yeah—peppered with neuroscience, inappropriate metaphors, and the occasional middle finger to the status quo.
Unruly is a neuroinclusive, radically funny shame detox for anyone who’s ever felt like too much—or not enough—in a world built for beige, obedient humans.
With chapters like “Call Me Clingy Again and I’ll Cry in Your Mouth” and “The Patriarchy’s Favorite Sex Toys: Boredom & Shame,” this book drags purity culture, capitalism, and every lie you’ve been fed about your body, desire, and worth.
This is not a journey to fix yourself. It’s a firestarter for burning the scripts that never fit and reclaiming your loud, messy, brilliant self.
You’re not broken. You’re just tired of auditioning for systems that were never built for your freedom.
"Unruly" is for every neurodivergent, too-loud, too-sensitive, too-sexual, too-much soul who’s sick of shrinking to survive. AASECT Certified Sex Therapist Dr. Misty Gibson blows up the shame scripts you never consented to and hands you the mic. We’re talking sex, softness, masking, meltdown-level burnout, late-stage capitalism, and the hot mess of being human in a world that demands silence. Expect dry, dark humor, science, chaos, permission slips, punchlines, and maybe a few threats to the patriarchy. This is not about becoming your best self. It’s about unearthing the feral truth of who you were before shame tried to domesticate you.
Take up space. Say the thing. Burn it down. Be unruly.