
Who Gave the Patriarchy a Microphone?: A Shame Detox for Your Search Bar
Shame didn’t start with you—it started with centuries of systems hellbent on keeping you disconnected from your own damn pleasure. In this fiery, trauma-informed deep dive, we break down how patriarchy, purity culture, and colonial control shaped your shame story—and how to rewrite it with science, sass, and unapologetic self-trust. Because your pleasure isn’t a problem to fix. It’s a revolution to join.

The Erotic Cost of Being ‘Good’: How People-Pleasing Kills Pleasure
The “good girl” narrative doesn’t leave room for turn-ons, preferences, or messy pleasure. Here’s how people-pleasing wrecks sex—and how to reclaim your erotic autonomy.

Your Brain on Purity Culture
If your nervous system flinches at foreplay, you might be recovering from a virginity-obsessed cult. Don’t worry—so are we. Let’s talk about what purity culture really did to your brain.